Back again, advice needed..

[Tulo]

Thank you so much for your reply!!
Even though I feel so in the dumps, it helps..

I think you are right, that I have no way of changing this now. All I can do is to try and behave in a way that doesn't make him totally against reaching out to me if he wants later on.
But this is so incredibly hard, as you know, so it feels like I can't breath. But I guess all I can do is to try and validate what he says and listen.

A few questions..

1. I have stuff of his here, would you bring it with you when we meet on Friday or save that for another time? It's just some clothes and small nicknack's.

2. He's going back to the US for work in 6 weeks time, he is staying for 5 weeks. He was supposed to bring back some items for me, since that shop don't deliver to Europe. Is it wrong of me to ask him if that still is ok? I thought that maybe when he comes back, we could meet and maybe maybe maybe he'd had some time to think things over and see that he had missed me..

3. Silly question, but I guess asking him if he wants a break where we go totally black for a month or so, wont do any good at this point?

4. We're friends on FB. Is that a bad thing for upcoming "going black"?

I'm gonna try to focus on myself, and my upcoming half marathon and hopefully

I will read your thread.. It's middle of the night here in Sweden now, but sleeping is soooo out of the question tonight..

THANK YOU again!!!