OK. Now you know the script. So no need to be surprised about it. Chillax and detach. Your WAH is on a roller coaster. You get to choose if you ride along. You can only control you.
Do you want to be the clingy person that is dragged through heck and back because you can't stand on your own two feet, who doesn't have a shot at reattracting your spouse back, and who makes the same mistakes in your next M?
Or do you want to be the strong woman that detaches, does some self care, GAL, and then works hard to grow to become Nole 2.0, someone that either has a shot at bringing H back or that is ready to be in a happy M or happy regardless of a partner?
Last edited by Cadet; 04/29/1510:42 PM. Reason: Link
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
