PS- thanks for the reply. I'll sit with that a bit. But as for running out of time, you're wrong...you just got a LOT of time! Check my thread in a bit, I'm about to post and bump it and I want you to read what I'll be posting shortly.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15