I have not visited your thread in a while. I feel like I am missing something. Perhaps you or some of the other folks who are familiar with your sitch can shed light or bring me up to speed.
Is your W begging you for a D? How is it not in your best interests to D? Is it consistent with detaching and DB principles to refuse your Ws request for a D? Why do you want to be married to someone who is so hellbent on D? Are you not controlling your W by refusing to cooperate on the D? How does it help your R to keep her in the M against her will?
