she has not made any attempts to see me, see how I am doing, reconnect....hell anything! Thats why I questioned this.
I would be shocked if she had, tbh. As you may have already read this is a marathon not a sprint. Sometimes the WAS/MLC'er vanishes and does not resurface for quite a long time. I think you might be asking is when you should give up HOPE.
And I would say that is a highly personal decision. Hope is something that we can keep within us, WE get to decide when we want to stop standing.
One of the other axioms that I firmly believe in is that the LBS gets to decide in the end, and for those of us who have not yet gotten to decide yet, it is not yet - THE END!
