I was bacially asking how, with their eyes and ears, espcially if those eyes and ears are tuned into someone else that is sitting on the greener grass. I understand what you are saying and I know my questions (some....especially that one) are out of desperation and despair. I need to take a deep breath and realize that it is over....as of 4-27-15 it was final. Now I just need to move forward from there as the buildup to that date has come and gone.
The reason I asked that question is I have been implementing the techniques from the beginning and more as I learned. I have been gone since early February and had little to no contact. She blocked me from Facebook (which in some respects is a good thing cause it prevents snooping and spying and any pain associated with seeing her in any post that might include someone else.) But she has not made any attempts to see me, see how I am doing, reconnect....hell anything! Thats why I questioned this. I GET that I am making the changes for me so that I am better for me and so that I dont take stuff into another relationship or, if lucky, back into the old one. I can't lie and tell you that I don't want to make the changes for her either or also. She's worth me not being pissed off and she has every right to be mad too. Thats the angle I am looking at it from. Not trying to be hard headed and I get what you are saying. Thank you sir
Last edited by Lost14; 04/29/1508:05 PM.
M 44 W 44 Married 2007 T-8 years M-7 years 1 stepson (now age 16) BD October 2014 I moved out Feb 2015 Divorce final ....(4-27-15)
