For what its worth i just wanted to say well done on all of this. you show your wife a good strong family man while at the same time your are handling things like that business news in a courteous but distant way (in my reading of it anyway)
Whatever happens in your future i dont think anyone could say you could have done more (except for maybe a bit of RD centric GAL)
Take Care RD
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
