As Betsey (aka Underdog) wrote, if you continue to pressure W, you will lose the war. I am so happy you understand this concept. I have messed things up with my WAW on several occassions by pressuring her, and didn't realize at the time I was doing it.
So be very careful with anything you say or write. First, ask yourself if it could seem like pressure to your W.
If you haven't looked at and/or printed the 'Validation Cheat Sheet" I highly recommned you do soon.
I wish you well.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
