Thanks. I feel like thinking fairly clear. Clearer than ever. Which was not the case at all in the past.
I know I'll be ready to move on and that there's a great life for me.
It'll be interesting from here on. My boss told me: you'll see when women get interested in you, your W will follow.
I actually for the first time I feel like I want to move on. It's such a limbo still, the in home separation. And I just found out the greencard thing might even take longer than expected. Maybe even another 3-4 months...
Feel pretty stuck right now. W didn't talk about the situation forever. Not sure if I should even start it.


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15