To get you caught up super-quickly, I'm waiting for my W to respond to the text I sent 2 days ago. Details:
(Posted by me on 4/27/2015) Wonka,
I see what you mean, because she doesn't feel emotionally attached to me now. Thank you so much for your patience and wisdom!
So, I'll go with this unless anyone else has any input:
“Hiya W. I just wanted to check in with you, and ask how the follow-up doctor's visit went? I thought about you on that day. Hope you are doing better.”
You are so good at this Wonka!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15