I was recently reading over Sandi's post on wayward wife's. It doesn't apply to me so much. I have truly hurt and broken all trust with my W. She is pissed and just wants out. I don't want to give up, but what choices do I have. I know we are to focus on us, and stay away, but I really screwed up here. I never thought my actions would have so much hurt with them. I mean I cheated on my wife, in all terms of it. I acted in infidelity, and I don't how to live with that.