Need some advice. Had conversation with H about refraining from any further affairs - physical or emotional, while we are figuring out what to do with marriage. I said it would not be fair to me or marriage if he clouds mind with affair.
H said he is not actively seeking this but could not guarantee that it won't happen. I think I should go back and clarify my boundaries about this in a more direct way - i.e. I will not stay in marriage if he continually decides to bring third person into it since he would not be emotionally open to me or our marriage and in essence making his decision.
Thoughts? Is it best to state this sorts of things face to face, text email?
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
