OD, he makes 9x what I make, and I've only been working a few months. If he's spending money it's joint, period. There really is no other kind of money to spend. There is no financial boundary for me to enforce (yet) and no way to enforce it even if I could make one up. He's gonna do what he's gonna do.
I'm kind of over the desire to spend time with him so him going off to spend a weekend with a floozy doesn't bother me because we could be doing it together. The number of ways in which he has acted with callous disregard for my interests has pretty much killed my desire for the marriage. See the first post of this thread.
Last edited by Maybell; 04/29/1503:44 PM.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
