Originally Posted By: Lost14
I know I need that smack with the 2 x 4 but HOW do they see the changes??

Are you asking me how, like with their eyes and ears.

or

Are you asking me when?

They will notice your changes when they are ready.
Maybe not before that, but maybe,
I think you ex-w is already noticing and trying to
test you about your involvement with your son.

Are you asking me are the changes to attract them back?
No the changes are for YOU.
They are not to win the WAS back.
The changes must be real because if they are fake then
they will not stick and they will also know that.

So I am not sure if that answers your question or if you are asking something else.


Me-70, D37,S36