Ripken - LRT with a WW and divorce filed #2

[Ripken8]

Please guys, can use all the suggestions and help you have on whether moving out would be ok or good.

If it's based on what helps me be the best me, not sure staying in the place while she disrespects me with the affair and stone walls me is healthy. Space could help me get/remain centered.

If i's about finances, going to have to pay her some $ anyway you slice it. She's not keeping the house and selling it anyway. I don't want it, so staying there only makes those next couple months/year really tough.

If it's about our relationship, not sure how it gets better when we're both triggered by the other constantly, whether that person is there or not.

If it's about the kids, right now, we both are almost competiting on who ges to spend time when, because we don't and can't do it jointly. Seperation would at least have this more black/white.

What are your thoughts? Does it help to move out?