RPP has it mostly right -- the issue is that he took some floozy out of town and called it a "work dinner" on a night that he was supposed to have the kids. He only has them 4 nights a month plus two hours a week and doesn't call in between. But he made a fuss when I delivered my settlement draft that he wanted enough money to be a "good father." So -- which is it? You want to be a good father? Or you want enough money to take floozies out like a high roller?
Anyway I found a third way and all will be well.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15