Cadet, I'm not sure how I was asking and pressuring her? Yes, I did ask for clarification on last week, but I think I deserved that, and I don't regret it. If anything I regret telling her back last week that I loved her.
For now, what's done is done and I can't undue it.
But, I would like some advice on how I approach the conversation that she says she wants to have on Friday night. Once she brings up the conversation, I was thinking of saying something like "so how are you feeling about things?" I'm sure someone can help me with something better to ask than this though.
Obviously I'm going to review validating statements prior to then as well.
