How does not leaving the house help with the affair standpoint? Again, if I stay and she can't take it and leaves, I'm left in a house I don't want to stay in anyway - too many bad memories and we'd sell it anyway, even if by some miracle we BOTH decide we want to make things work.
Also, I think it's damn near impossible to think clearly while I'm there. We were separated 3 years ago - I moved out and I felt better. Also, she was able to have time away from me to see that not everything negative is on me.
Michelle also says to try things and evaluate if they are working. I'm not sure with her stonewalling, still having the affair, legally wanting me out and me being overly stressed/anxious that it is working.
As she builds up this resentment with me there, how does it get better?
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
