thanks for stopping by. Things have been very hectic. My mother should be getting out of the hospital today - Thank G-d. I am not sure what prompted it, but my W called my mother to ask how she is doing. After not speaking to her for a year, it was awkward, to say the least. My mother loved her DIL like a true D and is so hurt by her actions. The conversation was very superficial, from what I was told by my mother. W is not just divorcing me, she is divorcing my whole family. We are all reeling from her self-centered behavior.
On another note, LAST NIGHT WAS THE FIRST NIGHT MY W DID NOT SLEEP IN OUR BR. I don't expect her to ever sleep there again unless she changes her ways drastically. It was a bit strange, but liberating. I feel a bit more detached. Let's hope that is a sustained feeling.
I see that you are doing pretty well with your H. Complimenting him and shedding your previous persona. Kudos to you. I know it is hard, but stop snooping. I should probably take my own advice.