Thank-you Cadet, my DB coach has advised me that if she says no to just be cool and say "That's fine."

But at that point the seed will be planted in her head and maybe at some point down the road she will approach me to go meet with Michele.

Me:43, WW:45
2 Kids: 21,22
Married: 23 Years
Bomb: 01/2015
Separate Bedrooms: 02/2015
She left: 03/2015