You say you checked your regular finances. So this payment was from a joint card. In which case, yes confront.
It's out of order to pay anything other than regular financial bills. That goes for work stuff too. If this 'work dinner' wasn't work and couldn't be put on his work card, the he has to pay cash or put it on another personal card.
That is a boundary. And he must repay the full amount as soon as possible.
If the can is full of worms, they will die one by one in the face of your tough stance.
(Not so) Old Dog xx
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
