You should ask yourself "am I doing things based on her actions?" and if the answer is yes, she is in control of you and you need to detach so you can live your own life.

Let me just hit you with the 2x4: You are not thinking clearly right now. Do not make any life changing decisions until you have centered yourself.

Last edited by Winhamn; 04/29/15 12:38 PM.
Me: 35 Her (WAW): 34
D8, S5, D2
T:16, M:9
BD + D: 4/3/2015
EA Confirmed 5/6/2015
Separation under the same roof