Ripken - LRT with a WW and divorce filed #2

[Ripken8]

I have and will be talking with her again today. She said it really wouldn't matter either way. I don't want the house, she can't afford the house, so it will be sold either way.

Also, if I fight to stay and she can't take it and she leaves, I'm suck in a house with horrible memories of affairs, etc and that's not healthy for me. I think I need someplace new to process, GAL, etc.

I still have plans of dragging my feet on the divorce, but to temporarily move out, I think would be best.

Another question. I've heard that when the ww asks for a divorce, you should validate my saying, I understand that's what you want and I won't stand in your way. Shows you are respecting her wishes.

Since her wish is for me out of the house, should I take the approach of "I can't do this anymore and I need to leave for me" or "I understand this is what you want and I won't stand in your way"?

I'm guessing the first, because then it shows, I'm dropping her and making a move vs. being a doormat.