Hi Ripken, I left our home at BD, and I can't say I have any regrets. I couldn't have lived with H whilst he was having an A. And in hindsight, I'm glad that SS hasn't been disrupted with a house move either.

I think if you look at this from a 'saving yourself' perspective, S may well be a good option for you. Will it save or harm your sitch? Who knows - but I wouldn't make that your guiding principle right now - JMHO.

Others may well have different views as many are much more pro-staying than me.

Good luck with whatever you do decide.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus