Question to the group, really need feedback and suggestions. I've heard the lrt is harder when separated and that to gain respect, I need to not leave my house, she should.

However in my sitch, ww isn't leaving house and legally trying to have me removed. Also she has been stonewalled the last 2-3 days so even in the house we never see/interact with each other and she's still having the om.

If I moved out or am forced to anyway, I almost feel that might be better. It seems like it'd be less stressful for me with no more anxiety about how to interact with her at home or having to be in separate rooms.

But, does it just makes matters worse? Leaving my house seemed like a big no-no on the boards. Would me being away for ww at least give enough breathing space for some of the constant negatives she's clinging on to to disappate?

It seems to be working for pilot, heavy d and a couple others who are separated.


M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23