Rysinmans climb after WAW! #2

[Ontheup]

Hey Rys

Great to hear you continue to progress and move on with your life.
The truck is a treat to you. My councillor says to do things that make me feel good. Be that just lazing in the sun (when its out in England) or buying yourself a new gift. You've been through (continue) one of the most painful experiences a human can go through. The pain effects you physically as well. This is proven fact, so yeah, you wanna buy a new truck and it makes you feel good, then you buy the new truck! Be kind to yourself.

Ad far as R, I feel the same. I have moved on a lot certainly in last 2 months since I've moved out so I do still think about but I'm very indifferent as to whether I would. highly doubt it will ever happen.
You know you'll be absolutely fine without her and be a great catch one day for someone else. Nice position to be in.
If your wife does realise she has made a mistake and wants to sort it out I agree with complex. What does she have to do to make that happen? She has to be the one doing the work

Try not read what is going on with your wife and OM. I know we al do and I do agree it doesn't sound like she's in a great place right now.
Quick story: My friend at work got chumped 2 years ago. GF ran off with some younger guy. He was/still is gutted about it. I'm trying to help see that he can move on with his life. Anyway his ex out of the blue rang him 2 days ago. Numerous times and got arsey when he didn't answer straight away. She rang to ask how he was and what he was doing for the bank holiday. WTF! she hasn't given a sh!t and now ringing to see how he is. Funny how they seem to come crawling back. See it so often.