Hi RD, just dropping in to say good morning....and to say I agree with Jim and Bob! You are doing well. You are there like a rock for your family, and that is something you will never regret for your whole life.

When the going got tough - you stayed and you toughed it out. That may sound like some indirect censure for your W. Because she didn't stay. But I don't mean it that way. She is pretty broken right now. She won't always be, but she will only heal in her own time, and what that means for your M, we don't yet know.

But for you - remember that you are a good man - and that is what really matters the most. Have a good day RD x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus