Always a suggestion as to how to fix things (my mind works like this, if I ask someone for help or advice then I either take that info and use it or not. My W however takes that as me imposing my view on her)
W feeling that I did Not let her come to her own decisions.
As she says being to nice, good to her.
Still these actions does not push W into A,
As they say all women love a bad boy...... Time for change :-)