Of course I'm ready to do battle for my kids. I have not spoken to a lawyer yet. There was no need to until now. I can't afford one. I pay all the bills here. I've been screwed by several lawyers in the past. They never seem to do any good except take your money.

Kinda tough to hire a lawyer with no money. Even if I was to hire one and get joint custody, I know how she works. She will do everything to try to get the kids to want to live with her. Saw her starting that kind of stuff tonight. After not worrying about anyone other than herself for the past several months, now tonight she was all about the kids. She did the dishes and gave son a bath. And had D in her room buying her things. She has all these plans to take them to all these fun places this summer. She has some girl she works with sending my D presents. My D doesn't even know this lady. My W has issues.

It is a major pain in the mass having joint custody in different states.

Her original plan was to go back and forth helping her mom. I asked her, " so you are going to rent a place down there and stay here when you come back up here and I am just supposed to go along with this like I don't matter? Yeah right!"

Last edited by Joe46; 04/29/15 04:43 AM.

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