I hung out with a friend of W and I at the bar tonight. Pretty good GAL. I did mention that we were S when he asked how the family was. However, I didn't tell him the full story. I left it at we have our issues we're trying to work out and he didn't inquire any further. Its too late in the sitch now, but if there are any other mutual friends out there that aren't aware that's the approach I plan to take. I don't think its right to make her look like the bad guy with mutual friends.

I've started reading an older thread here,

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1603624&page=2

in hopes that I can gain some insight to what the WAW is thinking. Its goes along with what vets have said on this thread and others, but I've been wading back and forth in what I should do.

Me:30 W:34
M:8 T:9
D:9 D:4 D:3 S:4 S:1
D bomb: 8/2014
S 12/2014
PA Confirmed in 3/2015 if I recall correctly