Nole_Girl (1) Intro

[Zues126]

Zues,

Can you please explain how you've arrived at this conclusion?

*********The biggest threat to the LBS's growth is the WAS's behavior.**********

To me, no one can ever threaten your own growth unless you permit the behavior to interfere with it. If someone wants to act "as stupid as stupid gets", that's on them...not you. I fail to see how the WAS' behavior is the "biggest threat" to a DBer's growth.

I've witnessed amazing growth among many DBers here despite and in spite of their WASes ornery behaviors and choices.

Again, how does a WAS' behavior threaten one's personal growth??

Wonka- Absolutely a LBS can grow regardless of what WAS does. The threat I referred to was when a WAS is acting really destructively, it makes it all too easy to focus on their behavior. Getting caught up in their drama, thinking that "they're the ones with the issues", or "I only acted how I did because they were crazy, now I have proof, look at them".

That's the threat. It was a warning to "stay in your own sandbox" as 25years says. I know I had that problem when my WAW did...doesn't matter, a/b/c craziness. Doesn't change the fact that I have my own ship to run.

Thanks for asking, I hope no one misinterpreted that.