Rysinmans climb after WAW! #2

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Glad to hear man. Unfortunately our questions stayed unanswered lol.

It's common knowledge that everyone gets to a stage of not knowing if he or she even wants the reconciliation. And even during reconciliation I've heard that it can be very hard and you have to get over yourself and just truly believe in it bc it will feel wrong to some extend.
But that's not our concern right now.
You have to make your own decision if you'd actually take her back one day and more importantly under which circumstances. Wat would she have to do?
Maybe just try to figure that out. Makes things easy. If she wants to come back one day she has to do the things that you want from your R. Otherwise it's probably not going to happen, or let's say it shouldn't. Or you'll find yourself in the same situation in a few years again. You both have to do soul searching and self improvement. Not only you.