My husband has been in an affair for about 6 months. Ive posted a few times before. He went from adamant last week that we were O~V~E~R completely, he was moving with his OW, to today, I asked him how he was feeling about things and he said I want to make the marriage work. I know God will bless us if I stay here. It will take time, I have a relationship with her, and I need time to break it off. I asked how long he said a few weeks. I dont get why you need a few weeks but when I asked him point blank. You are breaking up with her and we are working on things. He said YES, I asked if I could put my rings back on he said yes. He says he was fine with leaving until he started seeing my changes, my going to church, my not nagging at him, DB is what it was, this book is a lifesaver. I know this is going to be hard. I want SO SO SO bad to trust this, he has said before he would break it off and never happened but this time he said to ME he wanted to make it work rather than me begging and him saying fine. I so hope he means it! YAY please keep us in your thoughts, I know this is the beginning of the hard stuff. I told him we should sit down and make a list of our goals together, the goals have helped me so much. He agreed, said it sounds like a good idea! So what do you think about the needing time to break it off? I know I would rather him just cut it off cold turkey, but they work together and I certainly dont want to shove him right back to her.
