Complex #7 - the green(-card) mile

[Complex]

Don't worry about invading my thread, it's directly related to my own sitch.
I'm on the brink to giving up. But I gotta say my situation is definitely better than yours. My W at least somehow respects me, never had a PA and is showing a lot of sympathy by sitting everything out until my greencard is in. That bought me a lot of time. But there's still no sign whatsoever.
I got a lot of female attention recently and it is intimidating. Right now it is just good to see that there IS something else, maybe sth even better out there.

It was very helpful reading the conversation if you two. I'm thankful for any kind of thoughts.
I was already wondering where your thread was ontheup.

Quick blogging: I don't see W much. Very busy with work and GAL. Didn't go on another date yet. Just doesn't feel right still. But it was worth the experience.
Gone over the weekend for work again.
Me and W are very friendly roommates right now.
I'm still absolutely not sure how nice I should actually be, although starsky explained it very well. At this point I'm more catering her than myself being that nice. She is probably feeling pretty confident at this point that our D will be easy going. Which it actually might be. I'm not reactive at all, not even really strategical, all I do at this point is do my own thing and do the things that I want to do. I'm also trying to be myself and a good person but I'm not trying to be someone I am not, or try to be better than I can be....
Tats the only way I would want her to want me back anyway. Not going to pretend I'm someone who I'm not. She has to take me the way I am. Because that's what I'd do with her too.