So you spoke of goals the other day. Have you made any headway with figuring out what you would like to try for fun?

I find myself at 40 and I don't have any aspirations, no dreams and a juvenile sense of what happiness is supposed to be. I have never placed myself that much in a spotlight to focus on before, i always had someone else to focus my attention and devotion to.

So Zelda, let's start brain storming, what will be something you would like to try? Do you like to cook, bake, run, bike, fish, sing, act, play a new instrument...ever want to write, paint, draw or build. This is not easy to come up with something to try. I think a goal of trying Something new this week would be a good idea...doesn't matter how big or small. Whatd'ya say?

I have just decided im going to try to cook a nice meal for Saturday night. It is actually my 17th anniversary and I just realized in had not planned anything...yikes (would have gotten something nice in the past, but I donrnknow if it would come off as trying to buy affection)

Last edited by Zephyr; 04/29/15 01:15 AM.

M - 40's
W - 30's
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