Verified with my attorney that she did all the signing and the temporary order for me to vacate on 4/18. That night I confronted her on the accounts and she said she couldn't trust me and had to protect herself. Really overly defensive, but she just finished paperwork asking for these things.
The next Tuesday when she told me she said she hid things from me because she was a chicken and a coward and had to protect her because she didn't know how I would react to the divorce and affair.
All that being said she could have done all of this 100% knee jerk and out of fear. My l told me it's common practice to almost force a person to file first out of fear for what happens if the other one does.
Looking at her actions since then, she's been initiating, even though I keep it short. And this morning she came in to apologize for getting so angry and wanted us to communicate better. That seemed genuine and if she's adamant that she wants me gone and only a matter of time, why do that? Why not just ignore me?
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
