W calls to tell me that she is on the way over to drop off kids. Then W tells me that she spoke with her L today and her L told W that if I didn't agree to liquidate the money market, she would serve me D papers and sue me.

I respond by calmly saying that she can serve me the papers because I am not liquidating the account. I say that it is our family's money.

W asks me to explain my thought process because she is D'ing me and she will get half anyway. I tell W that I understand that but we are not D'd yet.

W then launches into this is why she can't stay married to me and that I am a financial terrorist and that I forced her to have sex, etc. W then brings up my talking to OM's W again and the whole stalker bit. I respond that I know that W has some valid reasons for D and she is free to proceed as she wishes. W asks me if I will be using her L. I say that I haven't even spoken with her L yet.

I can hear D4 repeating what my W is saying in the background. I ask W if we can talk about this some other time because I would like to focus on making dinner and getting ready to take care of kids.

When W drops off kids, I can tell she is mad because she will barely look at me. I just continue to smile and be cordial and wish W a safe night at work.

GB, I think I'll be getting those papers soon, rather than later. It's out of my hands. I will just continue to focus on me and the kids and remaining calm and confident.


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15