It's a nightmare. Wake me up 2

[MrBond]

"Do you think it would be e necessary move for me to leave the house again? So that she does not get a nervous breakdown? I really do not want to push her over the cliff."

None of that is your fault. In fact, you actually gave her money. She is just looking at you as an excuse because she can't deal with the reality that it's really her that's the problem.