Coming Home

[mleigh4]

SO I am in tears right now. Just feeling really frustrated. Came home for lunch and dog is not here. H must have decided to keep her, (he had S last night and normally drops her off in the morning with S's things) Shouldn't he run it by me when he changes the plan or am I not being "flexible"? We got that dog for S and the plan was that they go back and forth as a package. But every once in a while he will keep her longer with no regard for S and I. Or the cat that truly misses her!

I am pIssed but not reaCTING. I almost got in my truck and drove there to get her, let him come home to no dog with no explanaTION and see how it feels. But I stopped myself.

I know, like I said, he is in a really lonely world right now. I can sense it. Do I let it go and just mention to please communicate with me when he does this? Or do I once again put on my mommy hat with him and lay down the law?? Maybe he wasn't comfortable bringing her in his work truck after all?

I can survive without her for a few days. And I will check to see how S feels about it. But I am so sick of him changing the RULES whenever he Damn well feels like it!