So it has been a while since posting here on this forum i figured i would update everyone on everything thus far!
This coming Thursday i will officially be moved out of our house and into my own apartment. I have had very little contact with W since the trying to kiss me incident. Not sure if i mention that she asked me for my orders taking me to my new duty station. After a few questions about why she needed them she stated she was having problems at work and was thinking about quitting. Now this is a job that she has loved since the beginning. But the boss found out she was brining OM to work during the affair and i was still deployed.
So i guess things have gone sour for her since leaving me for him. Well i tried to contact her about the keys for the house but did not get a response for a week. Yesterday i get a text telling me she was sorry, but she was so stressed out about events in her life she had to get away and go see her mom, and that she will be gone for almost a month. Crazy i would have to say, considering just two months ago she told me that her life and happiness was going to be here in Hawaii and she was never going to leave the island and that i was on my own.
It is amazing how things change, my GAL is in full swing, im living my life for me and my happiness and now she is the one that is no longer happy. To be honest i have begun to really think if reconciliation is what i really want for the future. Does everyone go through this type of thinking once they have completely detached for the situation and relationship? I decided to buy myself a new truck this past weekend, gave me a little anxiety signing the papers but i decided that i deserved to spoil myself and make myself happy for a change. And i have to say it felt great driving that truck off the lot. And i couldn’t be happier about it.
Things are definitely looking up for me and my future thanks to everyone who has ever given me advice!
