Just had a realization. Right now, I'm not sure if I'm more scared about being kicked out of the house, child support, alimony, etc OR that those actions seem that divorce is inevidable and what I don't want.
Just need some advice and reassurance. Things seem bleak, but I'm freaking out over actions she took 1 1/2 weeks ago. Looking back she said SAT (when she filed and I didn't knw) about why she hid tax return money "I can't trust you and had to protect myself". Last week, when she told me about the divorce she said she had to file secretly because she "wasn't sure how I would react"
Now that she's seen how I'll react and that I can be civil/respectful, maybe she calms down and will be ok with status quo. I'd have to think last night/this morning couldn't help but help.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
