You have to GAL! It will take your mind off of your sitch for a bit which then gives you a clearer mind. Trust me, it helps. If you read through my sitch you will see that I have a hard time detaching too. It can be done though, even through backslides.
I'm rooting for you!
Swipe,
I second Eirinn's posting!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15