Already asked

1) order wouldn't go into affect for a little bit. My l will talk with hers tomorrow and just try and remove it altogether. If that doesn't work we have a hearing in 2-3 weeks. Either way, would be 4 weeks or so down the road
2)Options are the ones above, but if it goes to hearing, my word against hers and a toss up
3) L said not to talk with her about this and just have it go between attorneys, however, did say that I can be cordial and interact as normal.

So - with that being the case. How should I interact with her? My attorney said since I was interested in saving the marriage, telling her l that and that I was willing to do counseling could help. I told her no and that she already knows I don't want a divorce and that may push her further away. If ww brings this up, I'll just let her know my l is reviewing it and leave it alone.

So aside from that, what's my game plan, here?


M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23