I didn't go snooping at all. I was reviewing the finances as I always do and it just popped right out at me. I don't want to know what he's up to and I've just decided to assume that he lies 80% of the time. I never look at his Facebook or anything, and there is even one credit card statement I just hand over unopened, so he has plenty of ways to pull things over on me without it ever coming to light. I had thought that the tiny amount of time he spends with the kids that he actually wanted to see them, though. It was aggravating to find he was willing to do that to THEM.
I did not confront because it would have opened a can of worms I wasn't interesting in dealing with. CAN'T WAIT TILL THIS IS DONE.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
