Maybell XXXV: Almost There

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Hey Maybell -- just checking on you. Sorry to hear about the work dinner. Is there a way you can avoid looking into those things, as they are likely to be a source of pain? I mean, really, who cares what he's up to -- and you got to have quality time with the kids. I find that NC means (for me) not just not contacting H but also not looking him up online, on Facebook, etc.

I just don't need that in my life. The other bonus is that is drives a narcissist crazy to be ignored. They want to think that we are wallowing in sadness or anger without them. Don't give him the satisfaction. Just get on with your awesome life without him.