for some odd reason I'm assuming that the detaching thing Is much harder for men than women. I play it over in my head and tell my self "be patient cool calm and detach." But seems that doing and thinking arent in my favor lol.So she says to me today "lets take it one day at a time and see where it goes" and she also said "just let it be and let things work them self out." Now in my mind this is the perfect time for me to detach and man up and put all my determination into the 180s with no quit. I Guess I'm just so used to controlling every situation im in so much pain And anger that I can't control this one and it's driving me up the walls.
