Thank you, Cadet.

Good advice. He does not know about DR/DB coaching. Though he does know I am going to IC/coaching. I have told him it is to work on me so I can be better spouse either him or next person depending what happens moving forward with our marriage.

So, I am just supposed to wait for him to bring up conversations about the R? How will I know when it is ok to start being more engaged/pursuing on my end? I assume I am to wait until he takes more initiative than me. though when I pull back to much he seems to get irritated and thinks I am in a bad mood even though I am smiling and pleasant. Just not sure to know when the tide has changed.


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015