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[Ahoy]

Hi Seaside, Everything that your H said to you my H also said to me. EVERYTHING. It is the script that people use when they are having an affair. So prepare yourself for the fact that that is likely what's going on. You'll need to back off of him and focus on your own life as if he won't be in it. That might get his attention, and it will also give you time to work on yourself.
I'll try to answer your questions below.

Can anyone tell me answers to the following please?

1. Do I keep saying I love you, even though over the past couple of days he has stopped saying it to me.
HECK NO. DON'T SAY IT! That is pursuing and will drive him away.

2. What if he wants sex, do I agree
DO YOU WANT AN STD? Then no. No sex.

3. Should I try to initiate sex
HECK NO. See previous response.

4. Should I tell him to move out for a while
LEAVE HIM ALONE. LET HIM MAKE HIS OWN DECISIONS. DON'T PUSH ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. JUST WORK ON GAL ACTIVITIES FOR YOURSELF.

5. Should I try to cuddle him while we are alone
NO, AGAIN. NO. LET HIM INITIATE EVERYTHING.

6. Should I show affection whilst we are with people so he cant refuse without looking bad
NO, HE WILL RESENT YOU FOR IT.

Thank you all in anticipation smile