Defacto - that sounds awesome! The validating and STFU are amazing to read. I'm just starting to understand that concept, but I agree with other posters - she's coming to you. Even though it's divorce related or kid related, you are on her mind. As she's panicking, OM will see/notice that and then the affair isn't 100% happy fantasy land. Stuff's getting real. Will he support her or want that? Who knows. But right now, her attention is on you and you are GAL, staying busy and the LRT seems to be having an effect!
Thanks Ripken! I'm always second guessing myself but I can feel myself getting more confident each day.
Who knows what W is thinking? I can't control that. But, this sitch has been a whole heck of a lot easier to deal with since W moved out.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
