I saw myself getting impatient. I decided to relax and detach for a few days : )
I've been thinking a lot about being a man... having strength... and finding a balance between love and respect.
The past few days have been good. I feel more secure than I've felt in a long time.
I remembered that I am a confident, successful, attractive MAN. I'll be fine no matter what happens.
My W and I went for a 24 mile bike ride on Saturday. We both had a great time. Other than that, our contact has been limited but pleasant.
I feel like I'm in a good place. I'm no longer feeling anxious or impatient. I'm no longer eager to expedite an outcome. Whatever happens, happens... When it happens : )
It sounds like you're in a great place emotionally and past the "crisis" mentality.
The cycling event sounds very cool. I'm just thinking about getting more serious about cycling as one of my long term 180s to stay active. How long have you been doing it? Any pointers?
Me: 45 W43 S7, Foster S9 (Planning to adopt post divorce) D mentioned Feb 2015, Wife served 3/24/2015. She moved out 4/15/2015.
